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Mlyon is a new up and comer, his stuff on natural game is ground breaking. you will be hearing from him alot very soon

You can vist Mylon at: www.naturalnogame.com

enjoy on to the interview:

So first of all, how did you get into this whole business of meeting and picking up women?

I never had a girlfriend when younger. I just wasn’t good with girls at all. And when I turned 18, I started talking to women for the first time in my life. At age 21 is when I started looking for answers online related to women and what it takes to get a girlfriend.

What was one thing that really took your game to the next level? Did it take long?

It’s not one thing. It’s many. You learn as you go. It’s as if you’re creating yourself with every new experience, and it took me almost 10 years to finally be able to connect with women on a natural level. For some guys it takes only a couple at most. I consider myself to be a slow learner.

What are the fundamentals of tight game? And how long does it take to get good?

As far as “game”, I wouldn’t know. I don’t play the game. Alot of people do. I’m more “natural”, which means being more of myself without any technique… that’s the best way I can describe it. You’re always getting better at it, but it does take time, no doubt about that. I’d say it’s a life process. Maybe one month you’ll learn to get numbers. Maybe one year you’ll learn to take things to the bedroom with a girl. But what is considered “good”? There really is no limit. You can always improve.

What is your life like now with women?

My life with women, hmm…. It’s easy. That’s the only word I can think of. You know, I still get rejected and turn down by women, although it happens much less often now than before, but I also have alot of success with women. I’m not like this superstar ladies man who can get any girl he wants. I don’t think such a man exists, unless its in his imagination. I have wonderful relationships now when they do happen. The women I meet are incredible.

What are some of the building blocks of your teachings?

Definitely to NOT play the “game”. If you want real success with women, stay far away from this! The game is no more real than a fictional book. It is played by people who are too afraid or lost to know how to be authentic. You have to realize that attraction and seduction are a natural process, and that process is almost entirely dependent on self-development and being at peace with yourself. It’s as if you stop over-complicating things, follow your life with well-defined purpose and start living. That’s when real results show up. I don’t really have any “building blocks” like alot of the fake programs out there that try and teach men to be more attractive women. And I really don’t think they work.

What people have been the most influential for you in the process of becoming a pick up guru?

I’m not a pickup guru or pickup artist. I’m not even so much as a dating guru. I’m just like any other guy trying to figure things out for the way they really are. The people that have influenced me is really only one person…. Zan Perrion.

What is the biggest sticking point that you feel is holding guys back from reaching their potential in this arena?

I’d say self-confidence. It’s as if they don’t have anything going for them other than what it takes to be attractive to women. But the truth is once you have real purpose as a man then the women almost come naturally. It’s like they can see confidence in you now and find that you’re unique. It shows in your body language. So yeah, it’s definitely a lack of confidence. I think this is where “pickup artistry” came in. It taught guys how to ACT confident with tactics & techniques to take the girl back home. But that’s all masking the truth. They will eventually see through these artificially constructed layers.

In terms of inner game, what kind of mindset do you go out with to the bars and clubs that really enables you to pick up women?

Even though I don’t go to bars and clubs nearly as much as in the past, I walk into them looking to have fun. I assume that everybody in there is looking to have a good time and is willing to have social interaction with me, not just women. And as a result, conversations with women happen naturally, and they can sense I’m not just another weird guy sitting down with his beer looking to prey on women. I’m just having fun and meeting new people, even when buzzed. It’s all good fun. It’s like you’re making jokes and laughing at things that don’t matter.

Do you have a favorite opening line to meet women?

“You look absolutely phenomenal.” That being said without any form of neediness and with authenticity and sincerity. That’s the key.

If you were to hop into a frustrated, women-less, guys life, what would be the first few things you would change?

It depends on the guy. But if he’s frustrated, I’d tell him to stop feeling sorry for himself for starters. Then I would help him to realize he’s not frustrated with women, rather he’s frustrated with himself because he has no passion for living. His only interest is getting laid. He thinks that will solve his problems. But that isn’t true.

How can someone find you?

They can visit my website at www.naturalnogame.com or email matthew (at) naturalnogame dot com.

Could you give us a quick example of a success story or improvement that you’ve seen in a students’?

I’m coaching three guys right now over email and telephone. Their improvements are showing up when they start taking chances and getting past their fears of what they assume will happen with no real life experience with women. They stop over-thinking and over-complicating things. And when the women respond favorably to them, like agreeing to go on a date with them, they get really excited and thank me and say I’m amazing. But it really wasn’t me to begin with. All I did was encourage them to take action. They did everything themselves, but for whatever reason they feel they need me or another dating coach to give them validation that they’re good enough to approach and interact with women.